Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Affirmation


Affirmation: (af·fir·ma·tion) an assertion of support or agreement; a positive statement or declaration of the truth or existence of something.
Yesterday, we discussed the importance of encouraging each other. One important aspect of encouragement is expressing words of affirmation, or speaking a positive word to someone. Appreciation for your protégé always has to be expressed. We dare never take for granted the vital link all play in the body of Christ.

How to say it “out loud” to your protégé:
1. Share a Scripture that God has recently used in your life as “refreshment” to her spirit. “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path”. “Your testimonies are wonderful; therefore, my soul keeps them.” Psalm 119:105 and 129.
2. Express gratitude for their service to the body, “I thank my God upon every remembrance of you.” (Phil. 1:3) Affirm their significance in body of Christ. Your protégé has an important role to play in God’s kingdom program. Let her know that you know and are grateful for her heart for God.
3. Build her up! Ephesians 4:29 say to share words that build others up according to their needs: Speak words that edify. We have great power to build up with the tongue. “Life and death are in the power of the tongue”. “An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up.” (Prov.12:25). Your protégé could periodically feel discouraged and want to quit. Consider how to encourage with words of affirmation! You could be the difference in her life.

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